Do men like foreplay? You bet they do! The analogy is simple really. The more and better the foreplay, the higher the sexual tension; and the higher the sexual tension, the more powerful the climax.
Besides, men are already known to come faster than women during intercourse so the foreplay can be a good way for him to be constantly aroused while you reach your own sexual highs.
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Foreplay Move #1: Look, But Don't Touch
Engage and star in your own peepshow tonight. Use the element of surprise by simply walking in front of your man in the living room (or while he's lying in bed) completely naked. Pretend as if nothing's going on and start to twist, bend and turn to give him visuals that he can't believe he's seeing.
Of course, his tendency would be to grab you to make love after seeing you in your 'compromising positions' but don't let him. Instead, ASK him what else he wants to see or see you do.
When you feel you've tortured him enough, relent a little and say "ok, now you can just use your index finger and touch me ONCE anywhere you like". Next, he can touch you again but this time for a longer period of time.
Let this go on till he begs you to let him touch you!
Foreplay Move #2: Who's the Daddy Now?
He's so used to being the boss between the sheets, is he? Well, tonight, show him who the real boss is!
To start this right, you have to be the one to make the first move. That's right; be the one to initiate sex. For instance, if you're already in the bedroom ready to call it a night, be sure to undress deliberately in front of him. If he asks what you're doing, ignore him! Next, get into bed and really give him a good smooching, all the while rubbing your hand (or yourself) against his growing member.
At one point, he will probably want to take the reins. If this occurs, stop him. If he makes a move to go down on you, push him back in bed and go down on him! When you want some oral of your own, climb on top of his face. Never lose control of the situation.
When you're ready for some thrusting action, get on top of him instead of doing the missionary position.
Foreplay Move #3: Up and Down, Up and Down...
If you want to really delay his orgasm, try the start-and-stop technique. For instance, engage in fellatio and when you sense he's so far that he's about to come, stop what you're doing and focus on other parts of his body instead.
When he's relaxed a bit, go back to his member but this time, just use your hands. When he's ready to pop, ease back again and kiss him hot and wet on the lips. (Keep contact. Don't just stop everything you're doing. That would be mean!)
Now go back to his member by sitting on him and riding him. Ease back when he's so hot, and play with his nipples.
This stop and start technique is not only delaying his orgasm but since he never knows what you're doing next, it's mind-blowingly erotic.
Foreplay Do's and Don'ts
It's important to be CREATIVE when it comes to foreplay. However, sometimes practicality needs to be part of the mixture too. Just because something's been mentioned A LOT in some girly or relationship magazine, doesn't mean you have to jump in to the bandwagon as well. For a quick guide, read on to find out what MEN think are great and not so great ideas to do during foreplay.
The DO's
Nude pics. You know he likes looking at nudes. So why not give him a nude pic of you? Of course, you would have to REALLY trust him to give him a nude pic or else risk seeing yourself displayed in all your naked glory on the internet! However, here's an idea that can bring the best of both worlds.
Have YOUR digital camera ready next to your body. While riding him, reach out, hand him the digicam and tell him to snap a picture of you, ONCE. That will give him - and you - such an adrenalin rush. Afterwards, during afterglow, look at the picture together and then delete it.
So you made one of his sexual fantasies come to life AND you practiced safety by deleting the image immediately afterwards. No risk of seeing yourself online now.
Be a different woman tonight. Role-playing can be such a huge turn on. You see, most men do NOT want to treat their woman anything less than gallant in bed for fear of being labeled harsh or dirty or even weird. That does not mean though that they don't want to do it! As for you, maybe you do want to have rough sex once in a while. The solution, be a different woman tonight by donning a completely different wig.
For instance, if you're a brunette, go blond or vice versa. Don't give any hints and just walk into the bedroom naked with nothing but the different wig on. That's instant arousal for your man and both of you get license to go wild tonight.
A bit of bondage.... Women love to be pleasured down there so why not make it extra exciting for him and yourself by incorporating a bit of bondage. Have one of his silk ties nearby or wear silk stockings he can remove during sex and then ask him to loosely tie your hands as he goes down on you. Later, ask him if he wants you to return the favor. A silk tie or a pair of silk stockings is not as threatening as rope of handcuffs so this is a great way to try bondage for starters.
Write dirty words... on his chest. While he's brushing his teeth, fondle him and caress him to get the sexual flow going. And then, whip out your red hot lipstick and start writing on his chest the sexiest and/or dirtiest words you can think of. Write it backwards so he can read it over the bathroom mirror.
The DON'TS
Chocolate syrup is overrated! Don't get me wrong, chocolate syrup can be great foreplay item. However, don't overdo it. There's a thin line between wet and sticky, and sexy and filthy. For instance, pouring a bit of chocolate syrup on your breasts for him to lick is sexy. Putting a bit of it on his member for you to lick off is hot too.
However, emptying a whole bottle or tube of chocolate syrup all over his body is just darn messy and sticky! Plus, it produces weird, squeaky, un-sexy sounds between your bodies during intercourse.
Stilettos. Wearing nothing but high heels is darn sexy. But do take them off when you lie down in bed to have sex. Those pointed things are darn dangerous!
Sex lubes and lotions. Be picky when you use sex lubes and lotions. Some of them may smell good but once you get a taste of them... yuck! Major turn off. So the next time you want to try a product, sample it first before you go and pour it all over his (or your) body.